Consent

Enthusiastic and Informed CONSENT is Requisite to play.

There is no KINK without consent. Non Consensual behavior is ABUSE and will not be tolerated.

CONSENT:

This should be very simple to understand. If it isn’t yours, DON’T TOUCH IT! This applies to other people’s things, their toys, and to the people themselves including their subs. If it wasn’t agreed upon before a scene, DON’T DO IT.

Put another way, somewhat eloquently, “I may be a sub, but I’m not your sub. Keep your hands off!” unless or until you receive the permission of all the persons involved. Another example: I may agree to take a paddling. That does not mean that I expect you to rub my warm buns afterward unless previously agreed to. Furthermore, should I agree that you may partake of my afterglow, don’t even think that I will automatically welcome your hand between my cheeks. Did I consent to that?

NEGOTIATE BEFORE YOU PLAY:

Know and share your boundaries and limits, remember to ask about your partner’s as well. If you’re not sure, ASK! I don’t always kiss on the first date, but I could be open to it. Would you like to know?

INFORMED CONSENT:

Know your limits. This is very important in play, especially when playing with a new partner. Make sure you understand what you are consenting to and your play partner knows what you are giving consent for.

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS IMPLIED CONSENT:

Just because it seems like the next step, you know, like running the bases. BE SURE! ASK FIRST!

SOME FRIENDLY ADVICE:

Don’t break the toys. Leave them wanting a little more and they will likely come back. Go too far and they probably won’t.